Signs of a Cheater — Strange Behavior
All Birmingham cheaters (and all cheaters from around the world) are all united in one attribute: they all start to act weird in their own way once they start having an affair. The strange behavior will depend largely on your husband. For instance, my ex husband had a particularly strange way of reacting when he started seeing his mistress. In fact, if I didn’t know better, I probably would have been fooled by the way he was treating me. Strangely, after he started seeing his other woman, my husband would show up at home every weekend with a different gift for me. Sometimes it was flowers, sometimes it was perfume, and one time it was even a brand new flat screen TV for the bathroom. With all of the gifts, he would write me a beautiful, personal card. At first, I was totally charmed by his chivalry. Then, after time, I started to put all the pieces of the puzzle together, and I started investigating. Eventually, I ended up following him to a motel and found him lying in bed with a young redhead. Basically, you never know for sure when someone is cheating, but you have to keep in mind that all men will change how they treat you when they start seeing someone else.
A Cheating Husband is a Lying Husband
At the end of the day, a cheating husband is always a lying husband. Not all liars are cheaters, but all cheaters are liars by principle. If you have caught your man lying in the past, you can bet that there are lies he’s told you that you have not yet caught onto. One of these lies might be his total loyalty to you, as unfortunate as that may be. Certain lies might leave a cookie crumb trail right to your husband’s obvious infidelity. As heart wrenching as that trail may be to follow, you owe it to yourself to find out for sure if you are in a relationship with a faithful man. Follow the cookie crumb trail, no matter what happens to be at the end of it.
Ask Married Friends for Advice on Husbands Having Affairs
If you have married friends whom you know have been cheated on, it’s a good idea to ask them for their own personal advice on how to spot a husband having an affair. Some of these married friends might not have a clue when it comes to advice that could be useful to share with you, while others will readily offer volumes of information that would be useful to you when discovering whether or not your husband is a cheater.
How Often Is He Away From Home?
If he is away from home at an increasing rate, that is a classic telltale sign that he might be seeing another woman. Of course, it’s up to you if you’ll take the careful steps to follow him one of the nights when he is “working late”. You might not like what you uncover — I certainly didn’t. However, you owe it to yourself to know for sure what your husband is up to.
Signs of a Cheating Husband — Right In Front of Your Nose
Once you actually catch your cheating husband in the act, it will be clear in retrospect that all the signs of his cheating were right in front of your nose for the entire time. It’s unfortunate that it’s only clear in retrospect, but that’s the reality of the situation. Face the reality, and don’t be tempted by ignorance. Eventually, you’ll thank yourself for your courage.